Thursday, January 26, 2006

Say what?


okay I know you will appreciate this.
In the 16th century, houses were often built with
straw thatched roofs. They retained heat well so it
was not uncommon for a stray animal to climb up to try
and stay warm.
Well in the event of a big rainstorm, the straw would
become slippery and the animals would slide off.
Anyone looking out the window would only see a cat or
dog falling with the rain. Hense the expression...
It's raining cats and dogs.

Monday, January 23, 2006

Which way?


I recently took a trip to Williamsburg, VA with some friends. On the way back from the conference I realized I didn't know how to get back to the house we were staying at.
"Don't worry," my friend, Wes, said. "Just follow me."
And so we started off. Easy plan. But somehow things got all mixed up. As we merged onto the free way I had to give way to two overzealous drivers. With two cars between myself and the leader, I began to feel nervous in the heavy traffic. So I decided to pass in the right lane and catch up. Unfortunately I couldn't squeeze behind Wes' truck in line and an impatient driver forced me to pass Wes end up in the front of the line. That driver also thought it was a good idea to simply ride there in the right lane and so Wes couldn't pas me to take his rightful place as leader. So I was forced to ride along with my guide behind me!
What a mess. I kept thinking, "How are we going to get out of this?" Heidi helped me navigate by watching in the mirrors. "He's put his blinker on. I think he wants us to get off at this exit!"
I feared it would be a while before we could give way and let him back into his rightful place. I suddenly got the giggles.
"Heidi," I laughed. "I think there is a sermon somewhere in this! How many times do you and I take off too quickly and get ahead of God. And then we spend all of our time looking over our shoulders wondering if He's following us,- watching for signs of which direction to go in next?" We both had a good laugh.
It's funny 'cause it's true.

Monday, December 26, 2005

the Awakening


My good friend Adam gave me a CD for Christmas. These simple yet profound words have shown me once again the depth of God's love for me, and have therefore awakened a deeper love for God.

"…Far to long we have listened to the laughter and lies of those voices that have said our dreams are dead. The Son of God Stands at the door of our hearts. He is calling out our names like he called Lazarus forth from the tomb. Can you feel your heart beating again? …The Awakening is the unwrapping of our destiny. It is the emerging of what we were born to be. These songs and sounds are the beating of our hearts as we were awakened to the dream of God's"
-Jonathan Davis Helser

"The Lord says there is nothing you can do that would make Him love you more. There is also nothing you can do to make Him love you less. He loves you because He loves you, because He loves you, because He loves you, because He loves you, because he loves you, because that is what He is like. It is His nature to love, and you will always be the Beloved. 'I love you as you are, so be loved. You are the Beloved. It is your job' says the Lord, 'to be loved outrageously. It is why I chose you. That is why I set my love upon you, that you would live as one who is outrageously loved, that you would receive a radial love, so radical that it will blow all your paradigms of what you think love is. And know this,' says the Lord, 'I will love you outrageously all the days of your life because I don't know how to be any different. This is who I am, and this is who I will always be. This is the I AM I promised you. I am He that loves your outrageously."
-Graham Cooke

What would that experience be like? To fearlessly envision the dreams of God, our creator, our lover? To step into the realm of who God created us to be in his outrageous love?

Friday, November 11, 2005

Missing Child


January 3, 1998 I returned to college after break to find a MISSING posters plastered all over my apartment complex. A student had disappeared on New Year's Eve. Rumors and speculations ran rampant as the authorities launched a search. The story I heard went like this: He'd been drinking at a party and gotten into an argument with some frat boys. He'd left to go to his girlfriend's apartment but had never arrived.
Although the police were doing the best they could, the boy's parents quickly came forward to bring the spotlight to the story for additional support. Posters were blown up to gigantic proportions and put on billboards throughout the city and surrounding areas. I heard they took out a second mortgage on their home to offer rewards for any information, and hire diving teams to search the Grand River out side of our apartments. For months, it seemed you couldn't pick up a newspaper without reading about him, or turn on the news without updates to the story.
I'll never forget seeing the parents on TV one night. His mother was shaking and sobbing uncontrollably. Between sobs she'd plead, "Help me find my son…. PLEASE… help me find my son." On her face I could see the frantic desperation of a mother whose hear was breaking.
It's hard to imagine.
Yet, all throughout scripture I can hear that same desperation in the voice of the Good Shepherd as he searches for his lost. Sobbing, broken hearted, he pleads with each ear who hear his voice, "Help me find my children...PLEASE…help me find my children."

Friday, October 21, 2005

Too much stuff!


From Dec '03 to may '04 I had a time of abundant blessing. The Lord just
"opened the gates of heaven and poured out his blessing with such abundance that I didn't have room to store it"(to paraphrase Mal 3:10). I mean, I'm
talking thousands of dollars rolling in from nowhere,
a free laptop, plane tickets given to me, my house, I
was shown favor in the most unlikely places etc. etc.
I couldn't even believe it,- my head was spinning!
When it first started I thought, "Oh wow God thanks for_____ that's really cool."
Then as it went on I thought, "Wow God is so awesome, He just keeps blessing
me."
But as it went on and on and on ironically, I started to feel a bit uncomfortable. Yeah, who would
have thought? I started to hear about others around the world who had less, or friends who were
struggling, and yet here I was getting more and more from God.
So at one point I was telling God, "Thanks God, but really,- you don't have to do any more.
You've given me enough..." And yet the blessings kept coming.
One day I said, "Okay God, that's enough I really don't deserve all of these new blessing..." And
I just sensed him say to me, "You never really deserved any of it. I give these because I love you."
I guess when it was just one little gift given from God, I'd felt that somehow I'd earned it. Perhaps I'd said
the right thing or helped the right person, or maybe pulled the arm on the heavenly slot
machine,- somehow I had done something that had "earned" God's blessings in my life. It wasn't until
that day that I'd realized that God gives to us because He is good,- not because we are.
Look for God's blessing today and thank him for his
generosity,- even when we don't deserve it.

Sunday, October 02, 2005

D'OH


Crap.
I hate that feeling… You're proud of your accomplishments and then get humbled. I thought I had it, - and this morning I'd stood corrected.
Just last night I posted my list of 101 things to accomplish by the time I turn 30. It was a fun making it. I confess a lot of these things I've wanted to do for a while so putting it in writing and publishing it made it more concrete, - like I'd be held accountable for it. And I've checked off some things in the 4 months it took me to compile the list. It's been very satisfying.
My friends all made lists too…it seemed trendy and cool to do. We'd mention an activity and one of us would say, "Oh yeah, I did that …It was on my list." And everyone would nod knowingly. Like some kind of not-so-secret code.
Some numbers are helpful money saving skills that I'll need as a wife, such as #99, learning to cut up a whole chicken. Some are honorable and charitable, such as #30 be a Salvation Army Bell ringer at Christmas time. One is a final act of rebellion against a controlling boyfriend who I broke up with 12 years ago. (#60 if you're wondering. He "forbid" me to get one.)
But leave it to Benji, and the Apostle Paul to point out the obvious to me. Even if I accomplish them all by tomorrow, I'd be missing the most important task of all: Love.
1 Corinthians 14:1 says "Let love be your highest goal."
Doh!!!!!.
Out of 101 things to do in the next 2 years, I neglected the one thing that really makes a difference.
Sure, I put lots of spiritual sounding things on there: memorize scripture, go on a missions trip, step out boldly in faith and give a word to a stranger. But Paul says in 1 Cor. 13:1 that even if I do the greatest things, if I do them without love, then it's worthless. (My paraphrase, not a direct quote.) And it's not that I don't do loving things already, but I guess it just annoys me that out of the 101 things I'm holding myself accountable for doing, none of them are focused on the right thing. Get it?
So I guess I have to add some more things to my list. Send me an email if you have some loving suggestions. If you have a list, add them to yours too. Maybe they should say something like this:

102. Be patient with irritatingly slow people in front of me in line.
103. Go without something I like, to give it to someone who has so much less that me.
104. Go without something I like to give it to someone who has so much MORE than me.
105. Hold my tongue when that jerk cuts me off in traffic.
106. Pray for a generous spirit
107 Create disposable income with the sole purpose of giving it away.
108. Do something for someone in need- even if I'm inconvenienced by it.
109. Walk a granny to her car when it's raining. Hold my umbrella over HER head.
110. Buy a bouquet of flowers to give to a random stranger.
111. Invite a not -Heidi-friend to dinner once a week for a month
112. Go Buy-One-Get-One shopping with the intention of giving away the free item
113. Forgive
114. Admit when I'm wrong
115. Pray for more opportunities to LOVE!!!!

Saturday, October 01, 2005

My List


Inspired by my friend Angela's list I've spent 4 months creating a list of 101 things to do before I turn 30. It was tough because most of the things I want to do, I've done, including (much to my mother's dismay): wrestling a bear, getting a tattoo, and dancing in a cage (whoops, I don't think she knew about that one... she does now. ) And some I did while I was still creating the list. But it was there before I did it, so it still counts.
If you see a wish that you can help me accomplish, let me know, I might take you up on it.
101 things to do before I turn 30 on July 28, 2007

1. Try 3 new vegetables
2. Try 3 new fruits (muskadones… )
3. Travel to another country (Canada doesn't count since it's
really just America-lite)
4. Learn to swim
5. Go 5 days without eating sugar (like deserts, not fruit)
6. Memorize 20 new bible verses complete with number and verse
7. Make a cheesecake from scratch
8 Read Paradise Lost
9. See Casey Shuck again
10. Learn to run/jog 3 miles
11. Visit Chimney Rock in NC
12. Learn how to grill steaks and burgers
13 Visit New Orleans, go to Café Dumonde
14. Go to the beach during the off-season and run in the surf barefoot
15. Take a walk by moonlight
16. Have a picnic at Duke Gardens
17. Go to Africa
18 Tell my dad I'm going to Africa
19. Make bread from scratch
20 Pray in-group 5 consecutive times without needless crying
21 Paint my baseboards
22. Clean my bathroom once a week for a month
23. Make my bed every morning for 1 month
24. Learn the words of "come on Eileen" by Dexy's Midnight Runner
25 Study the psalms
26 Get the hard water stains out of my toilet. (It might take that long)
27 Sleep on a waterbed (do they still make them?)
28. Speak in front of a group without getting all nervous
29 Learn to speak 20 phrases in another non/Spanish language
30.Volunteer as a Salvation Army Bell ringer at Christmas time
31. Read C.S. Lewis' The Great Divorce
32. Meet Maya Angelou
33. Go to the Oprah Show
34. Meet Joyce Meyer
35. Visit WWII memorial in D.C
36. Watch an I-max movie
37. Live overseas
38. Complete my BLOG page including pictures, and advertisements
39. Memorize 20 names of God including their Hebrew/Greek meaning
40.Finish writing my children's book
41. Publish my children's book
42. Go camping
43. Take a road trip with an unexpected friend (i.e., not Heidi)
44. Kiss a cute boy!
45. Kiss a cute boy with a British accent!
46. Own a set of silk or satin pajamas
47. Learn to burn cd's
48. Visit Central Park in New York
49 Try a Bloody Mary
50. Meet Sofia Delaney Britton in Person
51. Meet Abigail McPherson Green in person (after her birth of course!)
52. Eat the RDA 25 grams of fiber a day for 1 week. (note to self, ***buy toilet paper)
53. Rent and watch a full season of Seinfeld
54. Preach a sermon to 30+ people
55. Get a pedicure
56. Get a manicure
57. Find and watch the episode of friends when "They were on a break!"
58. Watch Chariots of Fire
60. Get my belly button pierced
61 Get a tummy flat enough to show my belly button ring
62. Go 1 month without shaving my legs
63. Go into public (probably Carrboro) with my hairy legs
64. Be nominated for an award
65. Get an ipod
66. Get a 1-hour professional message
67. Learn to sing
68. Get great thighs (by any means necessary)
69. Learn a style of dancing (no grindy-bump, - real dancing)
70. Add at least 3 new artists to my repertoire of enjoyable music
71. Watch CNN to learn about current events for 1 month
72. Watch a James Dean movie
73. Watch The Graduate
74 Mail a cool picture to Lilly Craighead
75. Share my blog with 10 people
76. Read all of Maya Angelou's autobiography's
78. Grow my own tomatoes
79. Put carpet into my bedrooms
80. Clean out my shed and minor closet
81. Sell wedding dress on eBay or other way
82. Ride in a convertible
83. Pet a snake
84 Watch an outdoor movie
85 Go to a firing range and shoot a gun
86. Go to a movie by myself
87. Read Pascal's Penses (never mind. I threw it out.)
88. Read the Harry Potter series
89. Ride in the sidecar of a motorcycle
90. Remodel my kitchen with new stove, counters, and backsplash
91 Go on a mission trip.
92. Take a class (something that I choose, not for a degree)
93. Step out in faith! Not be afraid to give a word to a stranger!
94. Win a contest with a great prize!
95. Pay off my car and student loans.
96 Break my sugar binging.
97. Go to post-Katrina New Orleans (I've already done #13)
98. Work at a video store
99. Learn to cut up a chicken properly
100. Watch the snow fall from the window of my house.
101. Get married

Optional Alternate: meet a celebrity

Monday, September 26, 2005

Parable of the Azalea


At the edge of my yard, where the lawn meets the woods, grows a pathetic azalea bush. I didn't even know it was there until someone pointed it out. It was actually my friend Adam, who was doing some landscaping for me. He'd brought me two beautiful healthy azaleas to be planted next to my porch. As he dug and planted he said, "Well, you've got one azalea already."
"Where?" I asked
"Right there." He pointed to the edge of the woods. "That bush there, - it's an azalea. It looks like someone threw it there. It was probably half dead so they just dug it up and tossed it aside; -but somehow it took root and has survived.
And that was the only mention of the scraggly puny azalea bush at the edge of my lot. I did notice it a few weeks later when it attempted to bloom a handful of white flower, but I disregarded it.
It paled in comparison to the two beautiful bushes that had burst forth in glorious, bright pink flowers. I was so enamored with my healthy azaleas. I tended to them each week, - watering them and giving them fertilizer to help them grow.
Throughout the seasons, a large oak tree with low hanging branches sprouted its leaves, and weeds on the edge of the lot grew taller. I forgot all about that azalea bush…until yesterday.
My mom and I spent the day landscaping and she noticed it at the edge of the lot. "Oh look, you have an azalea growing there. " She looked it over. "If you pruned it back it would do well." (Mom's always had a heart for the underdog.)
I took her advice. Armed with nothing but a set of hand pliers, I set out to trim that pitiful looking thing.
Getting to the bush was half the battle. First, I had to cut away the branches of the oak and a pine trees that prevented me from reaching it. Then, as I raked away the weeds and fall leaves surrounding the base, I discovered additional limbs that had been buried, and an ominous looking vine that had entwined itself through the branches.
I began cutting away the dead limbs. After the dead limbs, I pulled out the vine. After the vine, I cut away the scrawny twigs that were only producing a few leaves, -plants are more productive when putting all of their energy towards thick healthy branches. Then, I turned to the wild limbs that had spouted out of control. They had to be trimmed to create the shape I wanted. Finally, I added fertilizer for a catalyst of new life within it. I stepped back to give it a once over.
Once it had been abandoned and disregarded. It had sat neglected as others received favor and attention. But the canopy had been lifted, a parasitic element detached, the dead removed, and the life refocused. I saw what my mother had seen all along: Potential to be something great.

Thursday, September 08, 2005

Nawh-leens

I was in New Orleans 43 days ago. I had such mixed feeling about the Big Easy. I puzzled the fact that a whole southern economy could be based on nudie bars, alcohol, and t-shirts with the F- word, but not sweet tea. I was overwhelmed that so many older people had service jobs, and many of them looked as though they were homeless. And I was surprised that such a huge portion of its population was black, -that says a lot coming from someone who grew up in Flint, MI
While I was so over the heat, and whole Bourbon Street experience, I fell in love with the food, the history, the music, and most of all the people. Heidi and I met or encountered so many people in New Orleans who captured a tiny piece of my heart:
Doc Lewis, the trombone player, who let me "help" him play when The Saints Go Marching In.
Frankie, the street musician, who tried to serenade us with a Pearl Jam song. I paid him to stop.
Anne, the chef who taught us to cook "gumbo and prah-leens" Her theory in life was "Oil is good…lard is better".

Our tour guide from the cemetery tour.
The nameless man on the bike who I'd assumed was homeless, until I saw his I-pod.
The staff at Mothers, who weren't the best at service, but who made a crab po' boy that I can never forget.
The man who sang gospel music for us at the fountain as we soaked our tired feet, -there's something peacefully humbling about a toothless homeless man singing, "God's Been So Good to Me"
Our trolley driver, who entertained himself by telling new passengers that his trolley was full and they'd have to continue to wait in the hot sun for the next one. He'd start to drive off and then suddenly halt and fling the doors open with a laugh! "C'mon y'all. I's just jokin'"
The waiter who served me turtle soup. He dampened my excitement when he told me it was made with veal.
The Russian puppeteer who made his marionettes come to life outside Jackson square. They sang, they whispered, and they danced to James Brown's "Sex Machine"
The beautiful dancing girl on the street corner who tried to lure people into the bar.
The homeless woman in the bright yellow dress and white stocking.
They are all etched into my memory. And now as I watch the news reports of the devastation left by Hurricane Katrina, I have a burden to pray for these people. For me, the victims are not nameless faces, but real people I have shared experiences with. I wonder if they are there, if they made it out early, or made it out alive at all. I wonder who will take care of them; I wonder if I'll ever have answers to my questions.

Tuesday, August 16, 2005

The Treasure Box


In my first grade classroom I have a treasure box. On occasion my students get to pick a prize to keep for themselves. I'm always adding to it with trinkets, or toys from Happy Meals, so it's brimming with some neat things. I have a bunch of cool toys that make noise, or blink or require batteries. But those are usually wrapped in plastic wrappers so 6-year-olds can't really get a good idea of what the toy is, or what it does. So they always seem to pick a balloon, or an eraser or something?
In my mind I always think, "That's what you want? I've got all of this cool stuff and you pick that for yourself? No, no, no, let me choose a real treasure for you." If they let me choose, I 'd pick a super cool toy, and they'd never be disappointed. I know them well enough to choose a toy that would be perfect for them. The elephant stamper? Well that would go to Erin, - she loves elephants! The tattoo? Well Darius of course. A dinosaur book? It's got Olivia's name written all over it.
My students often short change themselves because they can't clearly understand all of the options. You and I get like that when we make our own decisions without God's guidance. We often look around a situation, and choose from the options we see presently. But God's got an abundance of blessings in his storehouse, and He wants to give us his best, not just the best of the options we know about.
My friend Lauskya recently vented her frustrations about her job search. "I'm not happy where I'm at. And I keep applying to really great jobs, but I'm not getting them." But she quickly added, "But I know God's got the best in store for me, so I trust Him." She's got the right attitude! She's trusting him, and waiting for Him to provide.
I'm trying to have that attitude.
I've realized God isn't going along with the plan I've concocted for my own life. I thought I had a great plan. Obviously He disagrees. But because He is a loving God, I trust He has the best in store for me. Matthew 7:9 says:
You parents-if your children ask for a loaf of bread, do you give them a stone instead? Or if they ask for a fish, do you give them a snake? Of course not! If you sinful people know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your heavenly Father give good gifts to those who ask him?
Sometimes this verse alone isn't enough to convince me. So I've followed the example of King David, and have been reflecting on the goodness of God. I've been searching my memories for other times when God has proved himself to be my loving, caring provider.
Ironically, today is the 6 year anniversary of my wedding-that -never- was. Had I gotten my way in 1999, I would have been married to my college sweetheart. When the wedding was called off, and the relationship ended, I was devastated! And yet today when my friend Heather asked, "Are you sad [that you didn't get married]?" I laughed to myself and said "No, because I lack nothing." I'm so thankful now that things didn't go the way I'd planned! I see the opportunities I'd have missed, and the friendship I'd have never made. Coming out from the other side, I can look back at such a difficult period in my life and see the fingerprints of God all over it. He really did have something better in store for me.
So now when I'm frustrated that things aren't going my way, I entertain myself by imaging God's treasure box. As I try to convince Him that an eraser really is the coolest prize, he just chuckles and says, "That's what you want? I've got all of this cool stuff and you pick that for yourself? No, no, no, let me choose a real treasure for you!" I know if I trust him to choose, I'll never be disappointed.

Sunday, August 14, 2005

New Life


When you call on me, when you come and pray to me, I'll listen. When you come looking for me, you'll find me. Yes, when you get serious about finding me and want it more than anything else, I'll make sure you won't be disappointed.
Jeremiah 29:12 (The Message)

We serve a God who longs to be known by us. He reveals himself so we might know him better.

When the poor and needy search for water and there is none, and their tongues are parched from thirst, then, the Lord, will answer them. I, the God of Israel, will never forsake them. I will open up rivers for them on high plateaus. In will give them fountains of water in the valleys. In the deserts they will find pools of water. Rivers fed by springs will flow across the dry, parched ground. I will plant trees-cedar, acacia, myrtle, olive, cypress, fir, and pine- on barren land. Everyone will see this miracle and understand that it is the Lord, the Holy One of Israel, who did it. Isaiah 41:17-20

He waits in anticipation of the day we will respond to his call home and return to him. He can meet us anywhere we are; the highest high (plateaus), the lowest lows (valleys) the spiritually barren (desert). Wherever we are he meets us, with the miracle of restored, abundant, new, life.

Do-It-Yourself


Ever since I bought my house, I've been a real Do-It-Yourselfer. Because there's not a man around the house (yet,) I've had to develop a lot of skills. I've painted walls, tore out carpeting, laid laminate flooring, fixed a leaky toilet, built a screen, dug out flower beds, and reset a water heater. I have a toolbox, a storage shed, and a cordless power drill. I even know what the term 1/4 inch round means (and no ladies, it's not our desired waste line!)

Do-It-Yourself has kinda been my mantra throughout life. Are you like that too? Let's see if you are,-finish this sentence: "If you want something done right…" Ahh! You are!
I guess it's a fine attitude to have with a house, but unfortunately it also carries over to my spiritual life as well. I have a tendency to look out for myself as opposed to letting God take care of things. Some how I have this idea that He needs my assistance, like He doesn't have to power to do it on his own. (How did He ever get by without me? What did He do before I was here in 1977?) So as soon as he offers up a great idea I try to get to work and do it myself;

"A husband? Sounds good to me, Lord. Let me take a look around and I'll choose the one I like okay?"
"New ministry opportunity? Okay, I'll create one."
"Relocating to a new city. Sure I'll go find myself a new job. "
"Change? Okay, Lord, you just sit back and relax, I'll get right on that."

Don't fret. We're not alone, and we're not the first. Sarah and Abraham are known for getting themselves in a jam too. In Genesis, God promised Abraham a son. Sarah however decided that that was impossible because she was so old, so she took matters into her own hands. Poor Sarah could only see a snapshot in time and it made her desperate.

She encouraged her husband to have a baby with her handmaiden. The handmaiden starts teasing Sarah because she can't get pregnant, then Sarah blames Abraham (although it was her idea) eventually the handmaiden and Ishmael were expelled into the wilderness, where Ishmael's descendants became hostile to Israel and to God (Psalm 83:5-6). What a disaster!

I can look in the Bible and see Sarah's idea was crazy, but it's only because I can see the entire story. I can shout at the pages, "Don't do it girlfriend! Be patient!" but it won't change a thing.

But just as we can see the entirety of Sarah's story, God can see the entirety of our story. The Message Bible puts Jeremiah 29:11 like this:

I know what I'm doing. I have it all planned out,- plans to take care of you, not abandon you. Plans to give you the future you hope for.

We can trust Him, His word, and His promises, without feeling the need to take matters into our own hands.

…patient endurance leads to godliness. Goodliness leads to love for other Christians and finally you will grow to have genuine love fore everyone…
2 Peter 1:6

You will keep in perfect peace, all who trust in you,
Whose thoughts are fixed on you! Isaiah 26:3

For since the world began, no ear has heard, and no eye has seen a God like you, who works for those who wait for him! Isaiah 64:4

But blessed are those who trust in the Lord and have made the Lord their hope and confidence. They are like trees planted along a riverbank, with roots that reach deep into the water. Such trees are not bothered by the heat or worried by long moths of drought. Their leaves stay green, and the go tight on producing delicious fruit. Jeremiah 17:7

But those who wait on the Lord will find new strength. They will fly high on wings like eagles. They will run and not grow weary. They will walk and not faint.
Isaiah 40:31

Peace, godliness, love for others, provision, and strength in hard times are just a few benefits we reap when we relax, trust him, and let God be God. We don't have to do it ourselves!

Friday, August 12, 2005

Make Haste


A few summers back I traveled to Richmond, Virginia with my then-boyfriend, James. We were there for a wedding but also to visit his parents. While we were there, his mother, Debbie, wanted to show us the house they were building.
Now I've never been in a house that wasn't complete, but found it fascinating. Sure, we had to hike our legs up into the kitchen from the garage, but stairs are really overrated. And while there was no drywall, carpeting, or appliances, the 2x4's and windows created a skeletal frame of the house it was to become. (I saw it finished 6 months later and it truly was a beautiful house.)
At one point, during the tour of the down stairs Debbie, said, "Oh! I'm so excited. I can't wait. I wish I could move in now." However when we got upstairs, we noticed a puddle of rainwater on the floor. One of the newly installed windows hadn't been sealed properly and had a leak. It made me think, - it was a minimal problem because no one actually lived there. There was no carpet laid, no furniture to ruin, nothing but some plywood. And there's no harm in that getting a little wet. But if Debbie had actually moved her belongings into the incomplete house, a leaky window would have created a big problem. It's best that they found out when they did. The slight problem was rectified in the beginning phases and caused no further havoc. I recognized the value in waiting.
Yet, sometimes in my own impatience I rush into situations ahead of myself, and ahead of God. There have been times, as He's tried to unfold his plan before me, when I get too excited and try to rush the process along. (After all God need's my help, right?) I start thinking of 2 Peter 3:8 "… a thousand years is like a day [to the Lord]" and I begin to get a bit nervous, thinking he'll take too long!
In the end I sometimes make a mess of things. I hastily make decisions and later think to myself, "If I had waited on God, this problem would have been revealed to me and I could have taken care of it in stage one. But now that it's come out, it's just making a bigger mess."
Can you relate? Now, look at his word and see what it says in Psalm 37:

"…Commit everything you do to the Lord.
Trust him, and he will help you. .

…Be still in the presence of the Lord,
and wait patiently for him to act…

The steps of the godly are directed by the Lord.
He delights in every detail of their lives.

Thought they stumble, they will not fall, for the Lord hold them by the hand.
…Don't be impatient for the Lord to act!

Travel steadily along his path.
He will honor you, giving you the land…"

Oh wow! Patience is a good thing! No, not a fun thing, but a good thing.

Thursday, August 11, 2005

Learning to Love



I recently read Blue Like Jazz. It's one of my new favorites, - I can totally relate to Donald Miller! Check out this portion from his chapter on Love:

…The problem with Christian culture is we think of love as a commodity. We use it like money...If somebody is doing something for us, offering us something, be it gifts, time, popularity, or what have you, we feel they have value, we feel they are worth something to us, and I and, perhaps, we feel they are priceless. I could see it so clearly, and I could feel it in the pages of my life. This was the thing that had smelled so rotten all these years. I used love like money. The church used love like money. With love, we withheld affirmation from the people who did not agree with us, but we lavishly financed the ones who did.
The next few days unfolded like a thick line of melancholy thought and introspection. I used love like money, but love doesn't work like money. It is not a commodity. When we barter with it, we all lose. When they church does not love its enemies, it fuels their rage. It makes them hate us more.
Here's how it worked out on a personal level:
There was this guy in my life at the time, a guy I went to church with whom I honestly didn't like. I thought he was sarcastic and lazy and manipulative, and he ate with his mouth open so that food almost fell from his chin when he talked. He began and ended every sentence with the word dude.
"Dude, did you see Springer yesterday?" he would say. "They had this fat lady on there who was doing it with a midget. It was crazy, dude. I want to get me a midget, dude."
That's the sort of thing he would talk about. It was very interesting to him…regardless; I had to spend a good amount of time with him as we were working on a temporary project together. He began to get under my skin. I wanted him to change. I wanted him to read a book, memorize a poem, or explore morality, at least as an intellectual concept. I didn't know how to communicate to him that he needed to change, so I displayed it on my face. I rolled my eyes, I gave him dirty looks. I would mouth the word loser when he wasn't looking. I thought somehow he would sense my disapproval and change his life in order to gain my favor. In short, I withheld love.
…I knew what I was doing was wrong. It was selfish, and what's more, it would never work. By withholding love from my friend, he became defensive, he didn't like me. He thought I was judgmental, snobbish, proud, and mean. Rather that being drawn to me, wanting to change, he was repulsed. I was guilty of using love like money, withholding it to get someone to be who I wanted them to be. I was making a mess of everything. And I was disobeying God. I became convicted about these things, so much so that I had some trouble getting to sleep. It was clear that I was to love everybody, be delighted at everybody's existence, and I had fallen miles short of God's aim. The power of Christian spirituality has always rested in repentance, so that's what I did. I repented. I told God I was sorry. I replaced economic metaphor, in my mind, with something different, a free gift metaphor or a magnet metaphor. That is, instead of withholding love to change somebody, I poured it on, lavishly. I hoed that love would work like a magnet, pulling people from the mire and toward healing. I knew this was the way god loved me. God had never withheld love to teach me a lesson.
Here is something very simple about relationships that Spencer helped me discover: nobody will listen to you unless they sense that you like them.
If a person senses that you do not like them, that you do not approve of their existence, then your religions and your political ideas will all seem wrong to them. If they sense that you like them, then they are open to what you have to say.
After I repented, things were different, but the difference wasn't with my friend, the difference was with me. I was happy. Before, I had all this negative tension flipping around in my gut, all this judgmentalism and pride and loathing of other people. I hated it, and now I was set free. I was free to love. I didn't have to discipline anybody, I didn't have to judge anybody, I could treat everybody as though they were my best friend, as though they were rock stars or famous poets, as though they were amazing, and to me they became amazing, especially my new friend. I loved him. After I decided to let go of judging him, I discovered he was very funny. I mean really hilarious. I kept telling him how funny he was. And he was smart, quite brilliant; really, I couldn't believe that I had never seen it before. I felt as though I had lost an enemy and gained a brother. And then he began to change... It didn't matter to me whether he did or not, but he did. He began to get a little more serious about God. He gave up television for a period of time as a sort of fast. He started praying and got regular about going to church. He was a great human being getting even better. I could feel God's love for him. I loved the fact that it wasn't my responsibility to change somebody, that it was God's; my part was just to communicate love and approval…

Wednesday, August 10, 2005

Community


Certain things just come naturally in groups. You never see one grape on a vine, or one grit in a bowl. Oprah always comes with Gail; Bert is lost without Ernie; and Me without Heidi? … well, it just seems a bit strange. It's just not natural to be alone. Community is important.
In Genesis 2:18 sin had not yet entered the garden, yet as Pastor Kyle Ray points out, "The Bible says that there was something that was 'not good'" Read it for yourself:

It is not good for man to be alone. I will make a companion to help him.

And I believe that's the point. Anyone who would fall into the category of 'community' (friends, family, spouse, mentor, co-worker) has been placed in our lives for help.

Let me give you another example from good ole Mother Nature: Sequoia Redwood trees. These trees are so ginormous,(that's a 1st grade word) they require a whole bunch of water to survive. Therefore they have a very, very shallow root system. Most of their roots lie just below the surface of dirt so as soon as the rain water soaks in, - boom! The roots are there to soak it up.
Only one problem; Roots are suppose to support plants! With such a shallow root system, you'd think that one good storm would blow through and…TIMBER! Down they'd go! Right? Wrong! These trees avoid an untimely death by growing in… community. (That's right, don't be shy. Just shout it out when you know the answer.) The trees grow so close together that their roots intertwine. Above, below, through, and around, they create one massive web of roots that work as support. So when storms blow through, they literally hold each other up! How cool is that? So see where I'm going with this don't you?
When we have "storms" in our lives, it's our community that holds us up. Look at some more cool verses about the support of communities in the Bible:

When others are troubled, we will be able to give them the same comfort God has given us…For when God comforts us, it is so that we, in turn, can be an encouragement to you. Then you can patiently endure the same things we suffer. (2 Cor.1:4)

Now I want to tell you, dear brothers and sisters, what God in his kindness has done for the churches in Macedonia. Thought they have been going through much trouble and hard times, their wonderful joy and deep poverty have overflowed in rich generosity. For I can testify that they gave not only what they could afford, but far more. And they did it of their own free will. They begged us again and again for the gracious privilege of sharing in the gift for the Christians in Jerusalem. (2 Cor 8:1)

And all the believers met together constantly and shared everything they had. They sold their possessions and shared the proceeds with those in need. They worshiped together at the Temple each day, met in homes for the Lord's Supper, and shared their meals with great joy and generosity,- all the while praising God and enjoying the goodwill of all the people. And each day the Lord added to their group those who were being saved. (Acts 2:44)

Tuesday, August 09, 2005

Rescued


Gabby is my mom's dog. She was a rescued animal and came from the local shelter. While she was cared for well at the shelter, she came to my mom's home with a mix of problems. She was underweight, and had worms. She had mange that made her hair fall out in patches. She was lonely and unloved.
My mom loved her in spite of this and adopted her. Once home, Mom began the tedious process of caring for her. Potty training, obedience, frequent expensive visits to the vet, and administering medications took up a good amount of time and resources. But now, 18 months later, her hard work and investments have paid off. Gabby's had an opportunity to run and play, instead of always being cooped up in a kennel. She's received the medication to cure her illnesses, and had received lots of unconditional love. And as a result Gabby is one of the most remarkable dogs you'll ever meet. She's gentle, affectionate, quiet, sweet, loving, and extremely loyal to my Mom.
"It's almost like she remembers how it was before. " My mom once told me. "You know,- like she remembers the sicknesses and neglect; Like she remembers the bad times. That's one dog who understands that she was rescued."

I just spent 3 days in the midst of a wonderful group of Christians. Combined together, our past and present hurts would compile a laundry list of problems that would make Dr. Phil's head spin: Bitterness and unforgiveness, failing health, divorce, depression, alcoholism, drug abuse, promiscuity, abandonment, neglect and abuse. All of them have their share of struggles. But they also have the peace and joy of knowing Christ intimately. They worshiped with passion and authenticity, and through tears shared stories.

Regardless of their circumstances, they know He's adopted them into His family. He invests time in them, heals their wounds, and blesses them with unconditional love. As a result, they are gentle, peaceful, loving, and most of all loyal to Him.
Their backgrounds and stories were as individual as their personalities, yet their honesty and humility revealed a common thread, - They are people who understand they've been rescued.

Monday, August 01, 2005

Come In! Come In! Make Yourself at Home.


Last year I bought my first house. After years of dreaming and watching the TLC network I finally had a place to call my own, and decorate with my style. I signed the paperwork at 9 am and by 10:30 I had a bottle of champagne, paint in my hair, and one wall finished. Yes, my remodeling dreams were coming true, but believe me, there was a lot of work to do.
See the previous owner, Eileen, had fancied herself a crafter. The bathroom showed it. The school bus yellow walls, with purple hand-stenciled morning glory border were painful to look at. Literally. Plus, the light fixture was covered with magenta tiles and grout, resembling something a child would make at summer camp. But nothing a few hours and a trip to Home Depot couldn't fix.
"This house will be easy to make over." I thought to myself. "Paint the living room and the bathroom, and Viola! Dream house!"

However things got a little more dramatic on moving day.
Since the temperature was mild, we turned off the air conditioning to leave the doors open as we carried in furniture. My family and friends worked hard all morning, and then…the humidity kicked in. And with the humidity came a horrible smell! Apparently, along with crafting, Eileen also owned a non-potty trained dog. And while she had done a good job removing the stains from the carpet, it still lingered in the padding and even the sub-flooring. The odor resembled fish and urine- and it had to go!
A few weeks later my family and friends were once again hard at work, tearing out stinky carpet and laying beautiful laminate flooring. In the following two days I successfully added the term "1/4 inch round" to my vocabulary and created a home worthy of Ty Pennington's approval. (Oh…let's take a moment to dream of Ty…sigh. Okay, okay, that's enough. No more imagining Ty.)

But imagine with me just for a moment, how ridiculous it would have been if Eileen had tried to manage the house, after she'd sold it to me. She might have said, "I know these living room walls are white and bland, but I'm comfortable that way. I'm not a big fan of change, you know.
And the bathroom? Well, you can see I spent a lot of time stenciling the border on top. And yellow is my favorite. Let's just keep it 'as is' okay?
The odor? Well, I just love my poopsie-woopsie too much to put him outside in the hot sun. Besides, you can only really smell it in the fall…and winter…and spring. Pulling up all the carpet would be a lot of hard work. I really don't think it's necessary."

What would you say to that? Yeah, me too! " This is my house now, and I need to make comfortable so I can live here! I can't settle for this mess!"
Can I confess to you? I've acted like Eileen before. No, not with a house, but with my heart. Ten years ago I invited Jesus to live there, yet I tried to retain control of it's condition. Looking back, I'm sure the conversation could have looked something like this:

"Come in, come in Jesus! Oh, I'm so glad you're here! Please, please, make yourself at home! After all this is your home now. I've emptied out everything so you could fill it. I hope you'll like it here. I'm so excited to have you!
…er... What do you mean? What's what?…Oh! That?…well that's just a bit of jealousy. I don't really us it much, just once in a while. It's just over there for storage, really….
…And that? …Well, that's my food idolatry, - I kinda need that. I mean, what am I supposed to use for comfort? But see, it doesn't take up much room. Just that little corner really. You'll still have plenty of room.
…What smell? Oh, that? I got burned badly once. Yeah, that smell's a bit of bitterness lingering around in the air. I tried a few things to get rid of that but, - you know. I guess it's here for good. That one's not really my fault though, it was his fault…."

Just as silly as Eileen isn't it? In the same way I'd never be able to live in a home that was a stinky, crafty nightmare, Jesus can never live comfortably in a messy heart.

But now is the time to get rid of anger, rage, malicious behavior, slander, and dirty language…you must clothe yourselves with tenderhearted mercy, kindness, humility, gentleness, and patience…and the most important piece of clothing you must wear is love…and the peace that comes from Christ rule in your hearts. (Col 3:8-15)

Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. (Romans 12:2)

Jesus is in the professional renovation business. If you invite him in at 9 am, by 10:30 He's already begun to gently remodel. Is the progress slow moving? Could be. Painful? Sometimes. Worth it? Always. Just look at what we are promised in the book of Jude:

But you, dear friends, must continue to build your lives on the foundation of your holy faith. And continue to pray as you are directed by the Holy Spirit. Live in such a way that God's love can bless you as you wait for the eternal life that our Lord Jesus Christ in his mercy is going to give you. (V.20)

Let's get ready for an extreme- makeover!

Monday, July 25, 2005

Recess!!!


As the beginning of the school year draws near, I've been thinking about the new group of first graders who will be filing through my door in a few short weeks. And the one thing I'm dreading…"When, When, When??????"
See, first graders can't tell time; at least not yet. It's one of the skills we work on as part of the math curriculum. So until we get to that point, I am the official timekeeper of the classroom. And it drives me crazy! Let me explain.
The pivotal point of the school day is recess. You remember,- don't pretend you don't. Even thought we act all educated and academic now, as kids the only thing we really wanted was one half hour of playtime nirvana. And the same holds true today.
So while I try to establish a routine with my students in the first weeks of class I am bombarded with question after question after insanity inducing question!!!!!

"What time do we have recess?"
"Is it time now? "
"I see the kindergarders at recess? Why can't we go to recess? We're older we should go first."
"Last year we got to go to recess 2 times. Why can't we go 2 times this year?"
"Is it time for recess?...In the afternoon? …Is it afternoon yet?"

It drives me bananas. What they don't realize is that the only thing better than a being a kid sent out to recess, is being a teacher sending the kids out to recess. We look forward to seeing them go. I just want to tell them, "Listen! I want you to have recess too! And when it's time, I'll tell you. Don't worry. I won't let you miss it!"
But now I have to confess. In life, I tend to be a first grader. When my pastor once asked hypothetically, 'If you didn't know how old you were, how old would you be?' I immediately answered '6!' I like words that rhyme, glitter, kittens, and giggling. And I can't tell time. Like my students I can't see the eternal time that God has laid out. And on my insecure days I know I pester him about 'When, when, when."

"When am I getting married? Is it time yet? What about now? She's getting married. Why not me? I'm older,- I should get married first. When, when, when?"

The thing is, I know God is pulling his hair out when I act like this. I know he's thinking, "Listen! I want you to have this too! And when it's time, I'll tell you. Don't worry. I won't let you miss it!"

He wants to bless us. Don't believe me? Check out the Message version of
Jeremiah 29:11:
I know what I'm doing. I have it all planned out,- plans to take care of you, not abandon you. Plans to give you the future you hope for.
Yea! I love it! So my role is PATIENCE (not always an easy thing to do.) As hard as it might be to imagine, God is never late. Unfortunately, he's never early either.

Monday, July 18, 2005

My response:


Reading about the crisis in Zimbabwe is hard for us all. The suffering of those left homeless is unimaginable. I sat numb at my laptop for a while and simply cried. No praying, just crying so that I might grieve with them if only for a moment. I cannot wrap my mind around this whole ordeal, so I have tucked it into my heart.
While I don't question why God has allowed it, I know some of you have. My only response would be…it's only the middle of the movie.
Some of you have heard me use that expression before, but the rest of you are puzzled by now. Remember when we were kids, and every movie we watched had the same format? In the middle of the movie, the villain always appears to have the upper hand. If we stopped watching then, the story seems pretty bleek. But in the end, the hero...well, he's the hero. Good conquers evil.
I feel the same hold true today when I watch the news, or read the online headlines of the suffering in Zimbabwe. Men, women, and children have been abused, neglected, abandoned by their government, raped, murdered, and evicted, - yet it's only the middle of the movie. We serve a God who will be victorious.
God says in his word that there will be trouble in life, however he does not abandon us. He knows each of his children by name. He has fashioned their bones together in their mother's womb and numbered the hairs on their heads. He stands beside them even now, in the midst of their suffering, - even those who don't welcome him. And he consistently conforms those who call out to him.

"For he has not despised or disdained the suffering of the afflicted one; he has not hidden his face from him, but has listened to his cry for help." Psalm 22:24

"For men are not cast off by the Lord forever. Though he brings grief, he will show compassion, so great is his unfailing love. For he does not willingly bring affliction or grief to the children of men" Lamentations 3:31-33

Reading the report from Dave Ohlerking this morning left me stunned. It is inconceivable to me. As the tears flowed, I realized I didn't even know how to pray for them. So I did the one thing I knew to do in situations like these, I began to praise Him. I praised Him for His goodness, His unending love, and His righteousness. I praised Him for being
The Deliverer, The Judge of the Earth, El Roi (the God who sees), El Shaddai (God Almighty) the Prince of Peace, Wonderful Counselor. But most of all in the midst of all the suffering, I praised him for his promise to be victorious at the end of the movie. Love wins.
God conquers evil.

"I have told you these things, so that in me, you may have peace. In this world, you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world." John 16:33

Zimbabwe in Need


I know this article is long, but please take the time
to read it and pray for the children there and the
mission efforts. It'll be very hard to read, expect
some tears, but know that it's okay to greive with
them. The graphic part is forewarned so you can skip
that part if you need to.
If you haven't heard, Zimbabwe has been going through
some political chaos resulting in homes being
demolished and 250,000-1.5 million people being made
homeless. ( That was the estimate I heard a month
ago.)
The government has order the distrucion of urban
areas. Either you can tear down your own home, or
they will do it for you and charge you a fee. The
govenment claims it's because "crimials and riff-raff"
live in these areas and it will make the the cities
safer. However outsiders recognize that is was these
urban areas that had the highest voting for the
opposition in the last election. And the government
might have ordered this as punishment or to prevent
the organization of a revolt. Either way, hundreds of
thousands of men women and children are homeless,
suffering and dying in the winter weather.
This is an article written by Dave Ohlerking, head of
Children's Cup International. (the group I'll be going
to Africa with in the spring.) They serve in
Swaziland, Zimbabwe, and Veitnam.
thank you
christy






Read on only if you can open your heart
to know about some unthinkable
human suffering.


-Dave


For two decades Zimbabwe has been a profoundly
emotional part of my life. People close to me feel
like in my mind I live there. And now the grief is
even deeper than tears.


Following are some excerpts from the secular press
that tell part of the story.


From the Sunday Telegraph (UK) 19 June 2005:


“It (Zimbabwe) is a wasteland. Street after street
razed in a scene that looks like a natural disaster.
The hundreds of thousands who have been left homeless
call if ‘Zimbabwe’s Tsunami’. But man, not nature, is
to blame for the destruction enveloping this country.”


At a time when inflation is 500% and unemployment is
80%, tens of thousands try to get money for food by
informal street vending. A government crackdown has
bulldozed vender stalls and shacks where thousands of
unemployed displaced persons seek shelter. The article
continues:


“Veronica is an elderly widow who is critically ill
herself, she has three young grandchildren from her
dead daughter. Her home is destroyed.


“Some people came to Veronica and said, ‘Sister, there
are two people who are dying. Please come. One of
them, Mary, who is out in the open all night (in
freezing temperature) lying on an old damp mattress
can’t move with pain, she has [wounds] which are open
and bleeding. What is worse—her tears or her bleeding
wounds? [A paralyzing thought.]


“Anne had delivered a baby a week ago, she is
critically ill and is on the verge of death. What is
going to happen to her baby?”


From the LA Times by Robyn Dixon


“At dawn, Gatawa, 27, sat amid the chaos and panic
cradling her dying baby, with not the vaguest idea how
to save her. At 8 in the morning, Nyasha’s eyes closed
and no amount of rocking, hugging or nursing would
bring her back. It is winter in Zimbabwe, and the
mother believes she died of cold.


“Roads across the country are packed with homeless
people pushing handcarts filled with their
possessions. Once they arrive, they are greeted by the
chronic hunger and unemployment that plague rural
Zimbabwe, and village chiefs often tell them to go
back where they came from.


“Dominican nuns were ordered to tear down a day center
they had set up for 120 orphans. The nine-room center
had a clinic where anti-retroviral drugs for HIV/AIDS
were administered. The patients, many of them
children, are now scattered.”


My soul-deep commitment to Zimbabwe began in 1985.


HISTORY


In the mid-eighties I watched as the number of
refugees fleeing into Zimbabwe to escape the war in
Mozambique grew to more than 250,000. I directed
programs that moved as much as 65,000 tons of food and
commodities into the five refugee centers set up by
the government. In those years I applauded the
Zimbabwean government for being a “good neighbor” to
the hurting Mozambicans. And maturing government
policies were allowing the nation’s production and
economy to recover dramatically from the war that
changed Rhodesia into Zimbabwe. The first time a staff
member and I went into the camp called Tongogara they
assigned a government agent to go everywhere with us
to be sure we didn’t give people Bibles or talk about
Jesus. Over the next few months our projects saved
thousands of lives with food and medical care. We
watched the general security and health of the
refugees improve to the point government officials
commended us and even relaxed restrictions on overt
Christian ministry to the people. One very effective
ministry arose from the need for crowd control during
the clinic operations. Hundreds of people would be
milling around trying to be the next ones to get into
the clinic for treatment. There was obviously a need
for crowd control. We got permission for staff members
to settle the crowd by teaching them songs. Africans
love to sing. Hearing a crowd of Africans sing is
thrilling and soul-stirring. You’ve already guessed we
taught them Gospel songs. They sang the Gospel into
their own hearts!

Earlier we had asked permission to build a church in
the camp. “No way,” the officials responded. “When you
build a church that’s when the fights start.” (Isn’t
that a sad indictment on Christians?) But those same
officials had noted how our ministry had calmed the
camp and solved many matters of inmate discontent. “It
might be good if you did build a church—we’ll even
give you a place for the pastor to live.” Are you
remembering Jesus’ declaration, “I will build my
church…”? Carpentry, masonry, fabric dying, and
garment-making training projects gave thousands of
refugees skills that would let them earn a living.
Then when the war ended in Mozambique our team helped
truck the refugees and their possessions back to their
former home areas. Please note and rejoice with us: So
many refugees had come to Christ in the camp that when
they resettled back in Mozambique they instantly
formed into 16 new churches and preaching points! But
just as soon as the refugee crises was over a new and
even more sinister wave of needy ones came to the
former refugee centers for shelter and help—AIDS
orphans and vulnerable children--OVC in United Nations
parlance. Since 1996 the number of OVC that Children’s
Cup provides for has risen to as many as 1500. Food,
education, clothing, shelter, skills training, and
most of all the Gospel have changed these young lives.
In the late 1980’s was being called an African success
story. It produced enough food to export. Commerce
matured. Churches flourished. Hope was building.


PRESENT


Now everything has changed. Laws and policies were set
in place that deconstructed the society and its
economy. If you have access to the Internet I
encourage you to read newspapers of Zimbabwe. Go to
the UNAIDS site and read what is happening. And the
plight of the OVC only worsened. New laws and policies
are trying to close all avenues of humanitarian help
for the OVC. Zimbabwe has become one of the most
dangerous places in the world to live or travel.
Travel is mortally risky. A fellow missionary and
three other humanitarians have been murdered at
roadblocks. Ben and I had our truck disabled and we
were robbed by a gang of thugs. Attempted break-ins at
our staff housing in Harare occur almost every
night—if the intruders make it into the house
unthinkable things happen to the women and children.


Stop reading now if you are squeamish:


A favorite terror act of the intruders’ final deed of
rape is to use a gun barrel. It is an ongoing struggle
to keep finding legal ways to get help to the OVC.


For most of our 1500 kids we are their only source of
food or medical care. If we are stopped from reaching
them, many will die. You can read the statistics.


FUTURE


We will not abandon Zimbabwe. We will do everything in
our power to keep at least our 1500 precious little
ones—most of them we have hugged and many of them we
know by name—alive and as healthy as possible. Too
many times we come right up to the end of the month
and do not have the $4000 (that’s $2.67 per month per
child) it takes for Zimbabwe for the next month. Will
you consider carrying a bit of this load with us by
taking on a one-year commitment for monthly
support—you choose the amount as God leads you—for our
Zimbabwe OVC’s?


We can’t believe God will walk away from Zimbabwe.


Neither will we walk away.

 

 







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